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How to Choose a Song for a Ceremony (Civil or Religious): A 2025 Guide

A newlywed couple walks hand in hand down an outdoor aisle decorated with white flowers and greenery, during a wedding ceremony immersed in nature.

Music is the unifying thread of the ceremony: every note accompanies gestures, words, and glances. A carefully crafted soundtrack transforms the entrance, the exchange of vows, and the couple's exit into unforgettable memories.

But which songs should you choose? In this updated 2025 guide, we analyze the different moments of the ceremony (both civil and religious) with practical advice and suggested playlists.

Civil ceremony: creative freedom and a personalized atmosphere

In a civil wedding, there are no liturgical constraints, so the spouses can choose music that tells their story or creates specific atmospheres, from romantic to cinematic.

Detail of the newlyweds' hands delicately touching each other over the wedding document during a civil ceremony, a symbol of union and complicity.

Key moments to set to music

  • Entrance of the guests : gentle background music (chill-out, instrumental)
  • Entrance of the groom and witnesses : epic soundtracks or emotional songs
  • Bride's entrance : the most iconic song, carefully chosen
  • Exchanging vows : background music or a short silence
  • Signing of the documents : relaxed and serene passages
  • The Bride and Groom's Exit : Lively Songs Celebrating Joy

Recommended Song Examples (2025)

  • Canon in D – Pachelbel (modern version)
  • A Thousand Years – Christina Perri
  • Marry You – Bruno Mars
  • What a Wonderful World – Louis Armstrong
  • Perfect – Ed Sheeran

"A civil ceremony is the perfect stage to express who you are through music." — Matrimonio.com, 2025 Guide

Need to know

If you use recorded music, a SIAE license is required. According to Musiqua, the cost starts at around €130 for music played on a sound system (not live) during the ceremony.

Religious ceremony: respect for the rite and spiritual harmony

In a church wedding (Catholic rite), the musical choices must respect the liturgical atmosphere. Some parishes impose permitted songs and require approval from the celebrant.

Newlyweds during an outdoor civil ceremony, with a violinist playing under a floral arch, creating a romantic and evocative atmosphere.

Key musical moments

  • Entrance of the groom and bride
  • Liturgical songs during the celebration (Gloria, Alleluia, Sanctus)
  • Offertory, Communion, Final Blessing
  • The bride and groom exit

Recommended passages (approved in many dioceses)

  • Hail Mary – Schubert or Gounod
  • Brother Sun, Sister Moon – Riz Ortolani
  • Sweet Feeling – from «Brother Sun, Sister Moon»
  • Jesus, Joy of Man's Desiring – JS Bach
  • Glory – Taizé

Always consult your parish priest before confirming the musical lineup: each diocese may have different guidelines. — Velon.it

Suggested tools

  • Organ or classical piano
  • String quartet or harp
  • Liturgical choir or solo voice with acoustic guitar

Religious music is not just background music, but an integral part of the ritual.

Who's playing: live or reproduced music?

Type

Main advantages

Live

Emotion, personal interpretation, atmosphere

Registered

Absolute control, lower costs, versatility

Many couples choose a mix: live music for the highlights and a recorded playlist for the rest.

Conclusion

There's no perfect playlist, but there's one that's right for you. Choose with your heart and with care: every note will accompany one of the most beautiful moments of your life.

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