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The Newlyweds' First Dance: Unmissable Romantic Songs for a Unique Moment

The newlyweds gaze into each other's eyes as they dance their first dance during the reception, surrounded by soft lighting and emotional guests.

A moment that lasts forever

The bride and groom's first dance is one of the most iconic and symbolic moments of the wedding day. After the ceremony and the entrance to the reception, it represents the first dance as husband and wife: an exchange of glances, smiles, and embraces to the tune of a song about love. It's more than just a tradition: it's a true emotional tale, a fragment of eternity.

Choosing the right song for the first dance is essential to creating an authentic, engaging atmosphere that reflects the couple's personality. In this guide, updated for 2025, we offer a curated selection of the most romantic songs (both Italian and international), tips for choosing the most suitable song, and the most exclusive option: a personalized song written just for you.


The most loved Italian songs

Italian is the language of emotions. Here are some songs that express love with sweet and true words:

  • "To You" – Jovanotti : intense, simple, and profound. Every line is a dedication of love.

  • "Meraviglioso" – Negramaro : exciting, solemn, suitable for a dance that wants to surprise.

  • "La cura" – Franco Battiato : pure poetry that speaks of protection and dedication.

  • "The first beautiful thing" – Malika Ayane : elegant and light, perfect for a refined moment.

  • "You're in the Soul" – Gianna Nannini : full of passion, for feisty couples.

These songs evoke deep feelings and are suited to an intense and meaningful ceremony.


Timeless international classics

For those who love international music or are celebrating a bilingual wedding, the following songs are always a guarantee:

  • "All of Me" – John Legend : a true declaration of love.

  • "Perfect" – Ed Sheeran : modern, romantic, loved by all generations.

  • "A Thousand Years" – Christina Perri : ideal for a dream choreography.

  • “Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Elvis Presley or Haley Reinhart : classic and timeless.

  • "Come Away With Me" – Norah Jones : intimate, soft and sophisticated.

These pieces offer a natural elegance and allow for a gentle performance, to be experienced on tiptoe.


Choosing according to mood: three approaches

1. Pure Romanticism

For couples who want to be moved and touched:

  • “Thinking Out Loud” – Ed Sheeran

  • "The Sky in the Room" – Salmo feat. Nstasia

  • "Like Music" – Jovanotti

2. Elegance and refinement

For those who aim for a timeless style:

  • “The Way You Look Tonight” – Frank Sinatra

  • "La Vie en Rose" – Édith Piaf / Louis Armstrong

  • "If you're calling" – Mina

3. Simplicity and lightness

For an intimate and relaxed dance:

  • “Better Together” – Jack Johnson

  • “First Day of My Life” – Bright Eyes

  • "I Who Love Only You" – Sergio Endrigo


Detail of the newlyweds' hands intertwined during the first dance with romantic Italian music in the background.

How to choose the perfect song for you

Every couple has a unique story. Here are some practical tips for finding the right soundtrack:

✓ Listen with your heart

Avoid choosing a song just because it's "trendy." Opt for a song that moves you, that represents you, that accompanied a special moment in your relationship.

✓ Try to dance it

Put on the shoes you'll wear to the wedding, put the song on in the background, and try to dance. If you feel comfortable and moved, it's the right one.

✓ Evaluate text and rhythm

The lyrics are important, but the rhythm must also be appropriate for the type of dance you want to do. Slow, dynamic, choreographed, spontaneous: it all depends on your style.

✓ Ask for advice from those who know you

A friend or a professional musician can help you choose a song that fits your story and the atmosphere of the reception.


An exclusive option: the song written for you

To make your first dance truly unforgettable , more and more couples are choosing a custom song . With this service, you can have a song composed entirely around your story: lyrics, melody, personalized arrangements, perhaps inspired by your favorite artists.

✔ Tell your love story ✔ Choose the musical style ✔ Let a team of professional musicians transform your emotions into music

Discover the " custom songs " service, created to transform your special moments, like your wedding, into unforgettable music.


Alternative ideas for an unconventional first dance

  • Mash-up : a mix of two or more songs to tell different stages of your story.

  • Acoustic cover : an intimate version of your favorite song.

  • Instrumental ballad : if you want to let the music do the talking.

  • Comedy or energetic piece : to amaze guests with light-heartedness and irony.


Conclusion

The first dance is a moment of suspense, charged with emotion. Choosing the right song means speaking to the heart, sharing your intimacy with the person you love, and creating a memory that will stay with you forever.

Whether it's a classic, a modern hit or a bespoke song, what really matters is that it talks about you .


Frequently Asked Questions

How long should the first dance last?

2–3 minutes is perfect: intense emotion without slowing down the evening.

Is a slow song or a medley better?

A slow song is a classic choice. A medley is fine if it represents you and the transitions are fluid.

Can we have a custom edit of the song?

Yes: short intro, prominent chorus, and fade-out at the ideal length for you.

Is it a good idea to use a custom song?

Yes, it makes the moment unique and can have versions for the ceremony, first dance and video.

Do we have to rehearse the first dance?

Do 2–3 tries with the final edit to coordinate entrances, hugs, and final pose.